The study sought to understand their experiences as well as their meaning-making in the course of maintaining a public heterosexual persona while balancing their secret desire for sex with women. The thirty-four women in this study report lifelong incidence of attraction to and encounters with other women as well as men. They are not transitioning toward a lesbian identity nor experiencing fluidity; rather, clandestine encounters are part of an ongoing means to negotiate their opposite-sex marriages. It was important to their self-concept that their sexuality be understood in terms of its intensity and their desire for frequency and diversity of acts.
5 Ways To Tell A Girl Is Actually Not A Lesbian
I'm sorry, I'm not lesbian | World news | The Guardian
I 'm straight. There, I said it. I've been editing the gay news website Pink News for a year, and people are still shocked to discovered that I'm not actually a lesbian, despite the fact that only one of the website's last three editors have been gay. Reactions to the discovery of my heterosexuality have ranged from gentle ribbing to disbelief and even occasional anger. My predecessor has been harangued in the bars of Westminster for daring to employ someone who is "not even a bisexual".
I'm sorry, I'm not lesbian
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But the real question is, how can you tell if she's NOT a lesbian? Don't fret, my confused little lez. You're in the right place. I'm a pretty talentless, year-old lesbian, who struggles with many things in life.